What Is A Blow Job

What Is A Blow Job?

This article was last updated 06 April 2013

So, what is a blow job? I can just imagine what's going through your head...

So, you have never given a blow job before, and you came here wondering, what is a blow job?

I can visualize what's going through your head, as most of you are worried that the guy will just give you a touch on the shoulder and say "that's enough, maybe next time" - the "next time" which will probably never ever happen, after he goes round and tells everyone that you were a disaster, and you ask yourself again, what is a blow job, or have i done it wrong.

Or maybe you're thinking the way you might end up looking miserably bad, or look dumb from up there - or you're planning on getting wasted at a party, and hoping that while being completely drunk, you will not accidentally bite off some random dude's penis.

You may as well toss that thought out of the window of the moving car - just to make the whole point worse than it already would be, and thinking what is a blow job.

Or maybe you simply have reached a stage in your relationship wondering if its "the time" to start experimenting, or even "his birthday's coming up" - so why not shock him with the worst blow job in the world. Or maybe,..what is a blow job anyway...whatever.

Look : NO, you're not going to bite his penis off and NO - it's not gonna be a disaster, however, don't expect it to be the blow job of his life either.

You can prepare as much as you would like - the more you think, stress or sweat about it - the worse the whole thing is going to be.

So turn off your brain, and stop actually thinking about what is a blow job just for a second.

Practice will make a you perfect, yes really, and if you're armed with the proper knowledge of what is a blow job, you can get good, not just good - but amazing, in giving your man a blow job.

Any girl that's dedicated will do it successfully, but don't expect it to be amazing the very first time, it just won't be, instead, just dedicate yourself to practising and improving over time, and asking him what he likes best.

Second - QUIT viewing blow jobs as something you "should" do, or even "might" do because "it's your anniversary" - if you're not giving him blow jobs at least once a week, then your sex life maybe incomplete, from his point of view.

Good blow jobs can be a godsend, and the majority of girls are not very good at this.

Rise above them all, be one of the 5-10% of ladies that actually know how give proper blow jobs, and also 1% of those that are incredible.

But before you can get there - you have to start to take pleasure in giving blow jobs, and doing it out of ENJOYMENT, and it won't be fun until you loosen up. So calm down. Breathe, It's not the end of the world if you screw up.

Ok,  follow these THREE easy steps, and you will survive giving your first blow job.

One - look him in the eyes, and moan while you are sucking his penis, every now and then, get it out of your mouth, and give him a really naughty smile.

Two : have a firm grip around his shaft with your hand or hands, and as you are sucking, stroke,,,, after several times, stroke harder..., follow his reactions,.... feel him and be there with him in the moment.

You have to quit thinking at this point, and start feeling him on a much deeper level.

Three : Gently massage his testicles as you are stoking his shaft, and giving him oral, show him your own tongue, moan, stroke him hard while holding his testicles -- and then, tell him to orgasm, either into your hand or your mouth, that part is up to you and how you feel.

He will be as fast as a rabbit as soon as you say this. Be on your knees, and have some fun. It's not a problem if you mess up. It's normal, producing your first blow job "perfectly" is an illusion, but if you are persistent at practicing, and using the right information, over time you will become incredible.

In the meantime, your guy will really appreciate your time, energy, and more importantly your willingness to please him, and finding out just what is a blow job is. Have fun..